weekend stash

First, I came up with a stamp to put on my so called copyright picture ^^  

2nd- I miss working out, burning calories and have all the muscle aching. Sweating out the toxin and have a big gulp of H2O is the best part. But this weekend i have no intention on having a physical sprint instead i made a korean drama marathon, Cinderella Stepsister.

Thoughts mutter to my mind what if through this whole life I've been living with distorted belief. What if I perceive life differently? I wonder to what extent we have to embrace differences and pluralism. When I reached at two diverged roads in the woods I’m glad I have values to hold on to. Islam taught me values. Environment help me understand human connotation of values and education help me to mesh those elements into something iedetic to my mind. 

3rd- I recommend watching this drama. It’s about collision between 2 groups of people. One (Hyo Seon and her dad) side is well-mannered, have everything and compassionate while the other side is a people who are smart yet parasitic (Eun Jo and her mom). Watching the traditional maekgeolli (rice wine) making was so joyful while seeing the family ups and down let me goes into emotional incontinence.

Kerana nila setitik, rosak susu sebelanga. Kerana seketul yis, menapailah air beras itu menjadi arak.

KL-K.trg: i dont enjoy the land route

Its already Ramadhan and we will come to Syawal without realizing how fast time flies. Ever since my parents moved to Trg travelling there by car definitely not my cuppa tea. Last time my dad would drive and we were travelling with a bigger cc ride. If i'm about to do the same with my CLK cute lil kelisa i'm afraid i'm gonna lost my nerve once i get to kuantan. 
Let me tell you the problem to Terengganu:

By bus
if you travel at broad daylight, the bus probably will be real slow (avoid the speedtrap), some bus don't even care about stopping for solat. I've been in a situation where i am the last person on board because i went for solat
Travel at night: the bus would be too fast. Some people dont even have nerve to sleep

By car

If i'm driving skyline gtr i wouldnt mind driving there on my own. but with a small cc car and the highway that only stop at Cherating i should think thousand times. I cant overtake the lorry that pass by or a car that travel real slow like there's no hustle in life. best word to describe 'em is makan angin. I hate people slowing me down. With that attitude i dont think i should drive alone plus i am unable to get my caffeine booze (puasa lah katakan).

Aviation
My fav transport. Just wanna have easy breezy life. Travelling fast is one of it. My knee would hurt if i sit too long, orthopedic said 'theatre sign'. However the flight ticket would cost me a fortune (*_*)

Below are my request to merlin or godfather wherever you are:

• pls finish the Second East-West highway that by-passing bukit payung. already near to my house. I heard it suppose to finish by May 2011. Latest info said June 2012. 
• If you cant do that pls give me some raya promo ticket. I dont need private jet....firefly just nice.

I WISH I HAVE ENOUGH MONEY TO MAKE LIFE EASIER

How to baby sit 6 month old infant

This is one task that requires me to incorporate the knowledge from pediatric and psychology. Here are the things that you should know about 6 months old.

Milestones
6-8 months: sits without support

• At 6 months: with round back, aaqif still have a round back so can't let him alone since he still have prob in lying to prone by himself.
• Palmar grasp: give a soft toys so they can grasp,be careful...he can reach whatever he wants
• Put food in the mouth: actually not only food, it includes everything within their arm reach.

Too much or too little gratification can result in an Oral Fixation or Oral Personality which is evidenced by a preoccupation with oral activities. This type of personality may have a stronger tendency to smoke, drink alcohol, over eat, or bite his or her nails- Sigmund Freud

Random Facts Child Psychology 

• Infant's hearing will be stimulated by different intonations from the mother voices (this is what Datin said in class....she's a child psychologist)
• Read to the child as early as possible, stimulate the brain development. It doesn’t matter if he don’t seem to listen but keep reading to him. Not necessarily a storybooks, it can be a book of object with bright colors
• E.g. look at this….its a ball. What color is it? It’s blue. A blue ball
• Reading is the first skill to develop followed by arithmetic. If a child can't read by the age of 9 the likelihood of getting into behavior problem will increase.
• Remember to speak with the correct pronounciation so that they will pick up the right one. Don’t baby the pronounciation.

my problem
I can't speak brightly with different intonation, therefore he never laugh with me. When his mom came she made him laughed. Mommy knows best.

Baby Day Care Album

*Sorry abg long, your son is too cute to stay in my phone only*
I’m glad I was home and Aaqif’s mom got something up at her school. His granny and my mom (they’re siblings) is going to rewang at our neighbor’s house. So I’m left at home with tatak, adek and ayah.

hye..i'm aaqif. i'm curious...what's up with the flash

 He is so adorable and just started mouthing. He’s like want to stuff everything into his mouth..table, table cloth, curtain…you name it.

breathable curtain+ adek showing off his ripped body

tv's are weird

アリー(aree) *exclamation mark*

Having baby aaqif at home is like seeing ants flocking around the sugar. Everyone loves small cute creature.

Never denies a child rights to play because they play to learn.

"i wish to make some mushroom soup for lebaran...so that baby aaqif can enjoy some" i know tomorrow is only 1 ramadhan

 GOOD LUCK WITH THE BABY!!

remember jangan timang2 budak kecik, their brain never sits still yet

Dream came true…..ALHAMDULILLAH

The psychiatry result was out today. So grateful I passed. Things that I love about psychiatry are:

• The psychiatrists are not stressor-genic: they don’t blame you if you suxx instead they’ll keep encouraging verbal and non-verbally.
• The subject itself was not so complicated; therefore you are determined to do well
• Psychiatry has its own art which other field doesn’t have. Requires you to be the people’s people

they made me love psychiatry.....pic courtesy of Budak Sepet

I'm sure my friends that will be doing PSY posting after this will love life in there. Perhaps lots of shouting and sedation but it shows you the other side of medicine. After this I’ll proceed to medical posting. I want to keep this momentum.....it's a great beginning.

xoxo
farah AJ

Dreaming Capacity

I was a happy child. Lead a bubbly childhood where i went playing around with bugs but not cat coz mom said cat it will worsen my cough. I learnt how to give up the tricycle and make friends, best part of all i got to speak like sarawakian. Its cool! Being part of borneo a place that was totally different from my kampung. When i was child everything seem so easy, go to school, read storybooks then you're top in the class. Dream? I have lots of them

my first passport ever

As i progress to secondary i realize things are not that easy. Have to study and make notes to be excellent. Therefore i never be excellent. I blame it on my adjustment disorder(i wish i could warn myself, prescribe ssri and psycoeducation). I noticed i gain weight a lot during high school despite all the tiring life that i had. Having surrounded by rigid disciplinary life i realize i dont dream anymore. That time i dont know what to believe and wish i would leave the boarding school....soon.

I came to do diploma bc my spm is not good. In upm, i regained dreaming capacity back. I'm able to have a cool life events and socialize better. Idk but having to 'mingle' around cow and goats or even aquaculture creature gives me satisfaction in life. At least i know where my steak came from or kind of stuff do they give to my chicken (which end up in our dinner plate). This was the point of life where being educated and high skilled labor are equally important.

Right now i believe that i should continue dreaming. Viva, medical school- dreamt about it before even though i kept slacking off in high school and feel suxx about my image. The malays idiom says angan2 mat jenin, but if you don't dream you can't even visualize. Therefore causing inability to make a good plan and judgement.

I strongly feel that we must dream. My sis went to one of a workshop 'Law of Attraction from Islamic perspective'. It is surprising that our religion also acknowledge  dreaming/ visualization because its awaken your subconscious mind. It also applied to finding life partner<--that's what i'm talking about.

Currently i'm reading a book from Aldiko....The Secret:Law of Attraction by Daniel Wahlstrom. Just arrived at first chapter. My fav phrase so far....

The Secret is nothing less than the science of how thought interacts with quantum physics to create our experiences. You don't have to understand it. You just have to do it.

KEEP DREAMING! DREAM HIGH~

xoxo farah AJ 

muslimah love high heels

Prolong time wearing high heel leads to shortening of calf muscle and Achilles tendon (turns white).....consequently wearing flat shoe can cause pain- heard this from Korea News

I received few comments after I posted it on FB. Different people will have different opinion about high heels. My mom will definitely against heels because it’s bad for backbones. I love high heels for some occasion like dinner functions, viva or exam. Actually I do wear ‘em daily (lately) bc I finally found a comfortable heels….if it torn I would have a heels withdrawal symptoms.

A new study has found that wearing a pair of moderately high heels can tone the body, condition muscles and even improve a woman’s sex life without the need for onerous exercise sessions.
Maria Cerruto, a urologist at the University of Verona who led the study, said she conducted her tests because she wished to tackle “bizarre” nonscientific theories blaming high heels for a range of ills, including schizophrenia.

High heel shoe is footwear that raises the heel of the wearer's foot significantly higher than the toes. It has been worn by women for many centuries. The idea of wearing heels is to add extra height (I really need this) also give the illusion of slim and elongated legs. Of course the aesthetic benefit went beyond than raising heights. It is some kind of confidence boost for a person with 5ft tall like me. At least I don’t have to look up more than 90 degree when talking to my colleague.

Biology boost

It can shapen your calf *provided don’t pick the 6-7inches (I’m teaching you the damage control part here. pls do stretching exercise after you took of your high-heeled footwear)

• Improve feminine posture: pelvic bone will be tilted, arches the back and subsequently pushes the bust line forward.
• If you appear confident you can conquer the world

Psychology boost

A short fella like me would only appear tall if I stand alone….in order for me to stand tall with my friend I definitely need high heels. At least to give some balance to the picture.

If you want the country to be happy, make sure the women is happy

that's me without high heels, don't need 'em for doa selamat anyway. thanks Budak Sepet f0r bunch of great pic

Issues

Many second-wave feminist activist are against high heels bc it is objectifying women and define beauty with a restricted conotation. As it changes posture women appear more seductive. High heels also might produce a clattering sound while walking and caught people’s attention. This is when Sharīʿah doesn’t support fashion. So I’m gonna list things that you can do to satisfy your love for heels while not offending Islamic dressing code.

1. Must be harmless so opt for 2-3 inches heels (my personal opinion). Don’t go extreme
2. Must be covered, if it is a sandal worn with socks…..i prefer the covered one
3. Find the one with a rubber made outsole- minimize sound, better grip
4. The way you walk: it tells what you want to be. Either seductive, elegant or sloppy……its your call cause you mechanize it