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I often heard people talk about how hard to communicate with their brother. In this case, I’m so grateful I can talk to him without having the risk of getting vulgarize. A humanist parents is a good thing to begin with...we discuss things and none of them force me to be a veterinarian or a medical doctor. Anyway like other family there is some dysfunctional part of us. We never talk about how much we love each other until God had taken away one of us. At that moment I realize we must communicate...we must show the love.
Eid with kiddos
I want him to get it, so I:
- Ask him to give me a ride to surau coz its dark out there,
babi hutanwill come after me BUT THE LESSON IS to understand surau is the place where he mark his place in this society
- Encourage/ support him bulking up not to show off BUT THE LESSON IS if you want something get your lazy ass working and get a grip on the core knowledge, don't do things because others are doing it
- Pay attention to his interest BUT THE LESSON IS be sensitive to others, respect.
- Tell him he’s great, I love him for who he is BUT THE LESSON IS he must know how to love all significant people in his life